This is Prunella. She’s a Haro sidewalk cruiser, and she
belonged to my friend Karen, who died a couple of weeks ago, and whose funeral
I will attend this afternoon. Karen, a writer and editor, was 56 and died of a
rare, incurable neurological disease. She was one of my favorite people to be
around.
Karen wasn’t a serious or even a semi-serious cyclist. In
fact, in the years I knew her, I don’t think I ever actually saw her ride her
bike. But it was always proudly displayed in her apartment, and when we visited
her place, Karen would sometimes say to me, knowing my fondness for cycling,
that she adored her bicycle. “I love
Prunella,” she’d tell me.
The fact that she named her bike was typical of Karen. She
loved giving both people and inanimate objects silly names. Many of her close friends
were christened with uniquely Karen-ish handles. (Alas, I didn’t know her well
enough or long enough to receive one.) I don’t remember the story of Prunella’s
naming, though I’m sure it has to do with the color of the frame and Karen’s curious
but genuine fondness for actual prunes. (She once wrote a lovely and very funny
essay-tribute to the much-maligned prune. It was so compelling it sent me out
looking for some and got me eating them for a while.)
Lots of people name their bikes. But for Karen, Prunella
seemed to have an actual personality; Karen admired the elegant curves, the graceful,
impractical design of this sidewalk clunker—it was comfortable, classy, with a few flashy bits. I remember Karen admitting to me how terrible she felt when
she was told by a bike mechanic that Prunella’s flat (and ruined) tire was the
result of chronic under-inflation. It was as if Karen had been informed that
she had unintentionally under-fed a malnutritioned child in her care.
One reason I so enjoyed Karen’s company was that she laughed
at my jokes. She was smart, silly, literate, witty, and cosmopolitan. She spoke
at least four languages fluently. Making her laugh—and she did have a most hearty
guffaw—made me feel a little bit of all those things myself, if only for a few
minutes.
Karen was thoroughly European, and this partly explains her
soft spot for bicycles, I think. She wasn’t actually born in Europe; she hailed
from a town in southwestern Ontario. But it was as if part of her heart was in
Europe always. From time to time, she would set off gallivanting around
Budapest or Prague or Italy. Her soul was definitely eastern European.
About six months ago, before she got sick, I thought of the
perfect gift for Karen—a book called The
Delights of Delicate Eating (1896) by Elizabeth Robins Pennell. Elizabeth
and her husband Joseph were early cycle-travel pioneers who wrote extensively
about cycling in the 1880s and 90s. Elizabeth also wrote a food column for
London’s Pall Mall Gazette in the
1890s and this book is a collection of some of those pieces.
These food essays are not your usual fare. Elizabeth had no
formal culinary training; she was a complete amateur. But she wrote about food
with the zeal of a passionate non-expert. (The first essay is titled “The
Virtue of Gluttony”; another is called “The Incomparable Onion” and contains
this line: “The secret of good cooking lies in the discreet and sympathetic
treatment of the onion.”) The pieces are full of what Charles Lamb would call
“gusto.” It occurred to me that Karen and Elizabeth would have hit it off
famously. Both loved books, wine, food, travel, Hungary, good conversation, and,
not least, cycling.
But by the time I got around to bringing the book over, it
was too late. Karen was already sick and her decline was so rapid, that she
couldn’t read anymore. In fact, she slept for most of that visit, so I just
hung out with Prunella and read some of Pennell’s book myself, kicking myself
for not giving it to her much earlier.
She was so much like that! She dub our Canadian friends univocal true Hungarian ones, like Bill was Béla. It was extremely funny!
ReplyDeleteLilla, Budapest
She called me Bala Batchi
DeleteI miss her
Bill S
Hi Dave
ReplyDeleteIt's MB. Thank you for sharing this great tribute to Karen Jean. Having had the opportunity to spend some time in Karen's condo with Prunella, I think there could be similar tales told about many of Karen's other favourite things. I am glad to have read this one.
Warm regards from cold Ottawa, "Embicle"
Nice to hear from you, MB, I mean "Embicle." Of course, you and Prunella go way back.
DeleteThis is a wonderful story about Karen and Prunella, which is very pretty, just like Karen. Karen would be honoured that you took the time to write it. Thank you for sharing and I know she is smiling down on you, with a thumbs' up!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Dave, for posting these thoughts. You've captured one aspect of a woman who was so eclectic, and who connected with so many people on so many levels. Would that we all had such an impact. I cannot say how sorry I am that Karen left us so soon. I was only beginning to know her, and I wish I had known her much better.
ReplyDeleteWhat a delightful piece, Dave. Thanks so much for sharing.
ReplyDeleteYesterday was the second anniversary of Karen's passing. I still miss her so much. It was so nice to be able to come back to this post and read about Karen and her bike. I think this will become my January 11 tradition. Karen was a winter person, so I think of her lots in December and January. Thank you for this.
ReplyDeleteMe too, Vic. Occasionally I will think of a witty line and know that Karen would have liked it in a way that almost no one else would.
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